What makes a relationship difficult? Maybe it’s because everyone wants the same thing. If you listen to the stories of both sides from the relationship, it’s not hard to figure out that happiness, love and care are what people are pursuing. Then why, it’s difficult to work things out?
Yes, the problem is the “I” issue. We’re all too busy thinking I give the most, I have more problems, I do it for you, etc. and you, you don’t understand, you don’t appreciate it, you don’t care, etc. Sounds familiar right?
If the ego me is the problem, then what should we do? Here is the sad thing, although we know the problem, we don’t want to change. Why I am the one have to change? See, again, here is the “I”. Our love comes with dignity and pride, we hold them so tight even they hurt us sometimes.
I really suck, so do you!!
